Building Bonds When the World Seems to Fracture: A Lesson in Covenant
Sometimes the deepest human needs—like security and belonging—become front and center when life throws us unexpected crises. Let's talk about what covenants truly mean.
Brothers and sisters, sometimes the hardest things to talk about in the ward or in a missionary discussion are the ones that hold the most profound truth. We talk a lot about the gospel, about the plan of salvation, about the covenants we make with our Heavenly Father. But what happens when the world around us—the culture, the institutions, even our personal safety nets—seems to be built on shifting sand?
I was recently reading some material that prompted me to think deeply about the nature of commitment. It touched on how, in times of extreme crisis, basic human needs—the need for belonging, the need for protection—become intensely visible. When the established structures fail, what remains? What endures?
It’s easy to get caught up in the immediate crisis, whether that crisis is a global pandemic, a personal loss, or just the daily pressures of life. It’s natural to look for answers in the loudest places, the most visible movements. But as returned missionaries, as disciples who have seen the field from different angles, we know that the most reliable anchors are not found in temporal arrangements, but in eternal covenants.
The Unshakeable Foundation
The video I watched today, which dealt with how community bonds formed during a profound health crisis, highlighted something vital: when the secular structures falter, the deepest human connections—the ones built on mutual reliance and shared vulnerability—become paramount. The need for legal recognition, for protection, for a declared 'next of kin,' these are all earthly needs that point us toward something higher.
The gospel of Jesus Christ is the ultimate covenant framework. Our covenants aren't just nice ideas we talk about during a lesson; they are the very mechanisms by which we gain strength when our own strength fails. When we commit to keeping the commandments, we are building our own covenant protection—a protection that transcends local laws or immediate circumstances.
Being Christlike: Our Best Preparation
This brings me to a small piece of missionary preparation I wanted to share with you all. Sometimes, when we are studying for missionary discussions, we focus so much on the *doctrine*—the ordinances, the Book of Mormon accounts, the temple work. And that’s vital! But I’ve learned that the most persuasive testimony isn't just *what* you know, but *how* you live. Being Christlike isn't just about avoiding sin; it's about actively manifesting the Atonement in your daily interactions—the patience with a difficult family member, the willingness to serve when it's inconvenient, the humility to admit when you are wrong.
That consistent pattern of discipleship—that ability to be the steady hand, the reliable friend, the compassionate listener—that is the 'protection' we offer to our investigators. It's the living testimony that speaks louder than any pamphlet.
We are called to be internet missionaries, disciples anywhere, all the time. If we can maintain our covenant focus when the world is throwing us crises, we can certainly do it when we are just having a quiet Sunday afternoon. We can be disciples in our own homes, in our own workplaces, and in our own online discussions.
If you’re feeling the pull to deepen your knowledge of these eternal principles, I highly recommend diving into some of the teachings on covenants found in the Iron Rod library. It's always good to have material to chew on between our weekly gatherings.
If you’re looking for a place to wrestle with these deeper questions—the hard questions an investigator might ask about the nature of covenants or the role of agency—I encourage you to utilize Davee. He’s ready to walk you through some tricky hypotheticals as an AI Investigator. Or, if you prefer a more structured setting, consider joining a Book Club or Bible Study Group in HolyPlaces. It’s a wonderful way to study scripture together and build those vital bonds.
Keep building those covenants, my brothers and sisters. The work continues, and the Spirit is with those who are prepared.
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