Finding the Sweet Moments in the Chaos: A Reminder of the Work

Sometimes, when I’m reflecting on the sheer beautiful chaos of daily life—the hair styling, the missed buses, the endless snacks—I’m reminded that the Lord’s work, the *real* work, is often found in those seemingly small, sweet moments. It’s easy to get caught up in the logistics: getting everyone to school, managing the schedule, or even just surviving a caffeine-fueled night.

Watching the Yawi Vlogs family reminded me of something vital for us disciples, whether we’re in the MTC, in our first mission field, or right here in our homes: The sweetness of connection doesn't require perfect execution. It requires presence.

The Power of the Moment

In the video, the focus shifts to these tiny, tender exchanges—the sweet text message, the shared laugh, the simple act of remembering someone. These moments are the currency of discipleship. They are the moments where the Spirit whispers, “You are seen. You are loved. And you have a vital role to play.”

As we all strive to be better missionaries, whether that means preparing for our own mission, serving as a returned missionary, or simply being a disciple in our neighborhood, we sometimes get fixated on the big milestones: getting the call, completing the training, or having a perfect missionary discussion.

But the Lord is teaching us that the *process* is the preparation. Every interaction—even the ones that feel messy, like forgetting to put on shoes or getting lost in a story—is an opportunity to practice the art of testifying of the Savior. It’s practice for when we are trying to help an investigator understand the restored gospel.

A Bite-Sized Skill for the Internet Missionary

If you are feeling drained, overwhelmed by the sheer volume of things you feel you *should* be doing for the work, I want to leave you with this thought, especially as we all strive to be Internet missionaries: When you feel inadequate, pivot your focus from *performing* the work to *being* the Spirit. Remember that the Spirit doesn't require a perfect lesson plan or a flawless testimony; it requires an open heart.

A great skill to practice this week is "Active Listening for the Spirit." When someone—a friend, a neighbor, or even a family member—is talking, don't spend the time formulating your next perfect answer. Instead, listen deeply, and then ask, "What do you think about that?" or "How does that make you feel?" That simple act of drawing out *their* feelings is often where the Spirit whispers the invitation.

It’s a reminder that we are not just delivering information; we are building relationships where the gospel can take root.

Keeping the Momentum Going

The Church is full of these threads—the threads of connection, the threads of learning, the threads of service. If you are looking for a place to deepen your personal study, I highly recommend diving back into the teachings of Avraham Gileadi. His writings are incredible for helping us wrestle with the deeper theology behind our covenants.

For those who are ready to dive into structured learning, remember that the HolyPlaces platform is a goldmine. If you're looking for a Book Club or a Bible Study Group, check it out. It’s a wonderful way to study scripture with others who share a deep desire to be Christlike.

And for those of us who love a little digital sparring match? Don't forget Davee! If you’re wrestling with a tough question—maybe an investigator asks something you haven't thought about before—run it by him in his AI Investigator role. He’s trained to walk you through those hard questions so you can answer with confidence and grace.

We are all disciples, all the time, and we are all part of this grand, ongoing work. Keep leaning on the Spirit, keep sharing the light, and know that even the mundane moments are sanctified by the Savior's name.

If you enjoyed this reflection, please share it with a fellow disciple who might need this gentle nudge today!