From Ashes to Beauty: Finding Strength in Brokenness

We all know the feeling. The crushing weight of disappointment, the sting of a broken promise, the sense that something sacred has shattered. The world whispers of failure, of inadequacy, and the voices of doubt threaten to drown out the still, small voice of hope. But even in the darkest valleys, the Lord’s promise remains: He can take ashes and turn them into beauty.

Recently, I was reminded of this truth profoundly through an episode of LDS Living’s “All In” podcast, featuring Sariah and Troy Davis. Their story, a testament to resilience and divine grace, resonated deep within my soul, and I knew it was a message we needed to share with our community.

Divorce is a topic often avoided, a sensitive chord that strikes deep within families and communities who hold eternal marriage in high regard. Yet, it's a reality for many, and the pain, the shame, and the sense of failure are real. The podcast opens with this understanding, acknowledging the devastation that accompanies the ending of a sacred union – a union entered into with the purest of intentions.

As Ammon stood at the Waters of Sebus, ready to lay down his life for his people, he understood that sometimes, the path to righteousness is paved with sacrifice and suffering. So too, is the journey of healing from brokenness. The Davises’ willingness to openly share their experiences—ten and a half breakups spanning three years of dating, blending a family of ten children and two grandchildren—is a powerful example of courage. They didn’t shy away from the pain; they faced it head-on, knowing that true healing comes only through the Lord’s redeeming power. It's a testament to the spirit of Samuel the Lamanite, who climbed the walls to warn the people, even when it meant facing opposition.

What struck me most was their simple yet profound realization: “You can do hard with Jesus, or you can do hard alone. That is your choice.” It's a choice that defines our journey, a choice that determines whether our struggles become tests of faith or sources of despair. To do hard *with* the Lord is to invite His grace, His comfort, and His transformative power into our lives.

The Davises' story reminds us that even when we feel broken, we are not beyond redemption. The Lord is in the business of restoring what is lost, of mending what is shattered. He is the Stone cut without hands, the unexpected force that can reshape our lives and bring forth beauty from the most unlikely places.

This isn't merely about individual healing; it’s about a larger movement, a gathering of souls who understand that true strength comes not from avoiding hardship but from facing it with unwavering faith. Your engagement here—the clicks, the shares, the conversations—fuels the Charity Flywheel. It directly supports gospel advertising in places like Ghana, bringing the message of hope and restoration to those who desperately need it. The Missionary Fund is also bolstered by this collective effort, sending forth internet missionaries to share the good news across the globe.

As we navigate the challenges of life, let us remember the Davises’ words: “Look for beauty for ashes.” Let us seek the Lord’s guidance, lean on His strength, and trust in His unwavering promise to transform our suffering into something beautiful. And as we do, let us extend a hand to those who are struggling, offering forgiveness, lifting them up, and helping them find their own path to healing and redemption.

Let us continue to build, to gather, to be lights in the darkness, knowing that the Lord is with us every step of the way. Check the Map of Churches and see where you can contribute your talents and time to this global effort. Claim your church and let your voice be heard in the gathering!