Listening for the Divine Prompt: How to Pray for God's Will
Instead of praying for what you want, learn the sacred skill of asking God what He wants for you in your life and service.
There’s a common habit we all fall into when we feel stressed, uncertain, or simply need something. We gather our thoughts, we open our mouths, and we start praying, usually listing out our needs: "Please help me with this test," or "Please give me that job."
And while asking God for our needs is natural, the deepest, most powerful form of prayer—the kind that truly changes our trajectory—is not about petitioning Him. It's about listening. It's about shifting our focus from what we *want* to what the Lord *wants* for us.
We’ve all been there, standing in the chapel, trying to articulate the perfect prayer. We want it to sound profound, full of scripture references, and perfectly spiritual. But sometimes, the most profound lesson comes from a simple, necessary correction: We don't pray to tell God what we want or what we need. We pray to find out what God wants for us.
This principle is absolutely critical, not just for personal revelation, but for every single one of us who wants to be an effective Internet missionary. When we are preparing for mission discussions, or even just sharing our testimony in a Book Club, the most effective thing we can do is stop assuming we know the answer. We have to be willing to be taught.
The Disciple’s Mindset: From Wanting to Seeking
As returned missionaries, we learn quickly that the field is unpredictable. You might spend weeks preparing for a visit, only for the circumstances to change entirely. You might feel ready to go, only to realize the Lord has a different timing, a different focus. That moment of surrender—the moment you admit, "I don't know what to do, Heavenly Father, show me"—that is where the Spirit speaks loudest.
Being a disciple anywhere, all the time, means adopting this mindset. It means treating every interaction—whether it's a neighbor, a coworker, or a fellow member—as a potential opportunity to discern God’s will. It’s not about having the perfect answer; it’s about having the perfect question.
How to Tune Your Spiritual Ear
How do we train ourselves to listen for that divine prompt? We need to make it a consistent practice, just like we would treat our daily scripture study or our preparation for a transfer. Here are a few habits that helped me when I was first assigned to my district:
- Read with a Question: When you are studying the Book of Mormon, don't just look up definitions. Ask: "What does this passage teach me about *my* current challenge?"
- Use the Tools: This is where the power of technology meets ancient revelation. If you're struggling with a tough doctrinal question, don't guess. Use Davee, our AI Investigator. He is trained to walk you through the hard questions an investigator might ask, helping you formulate an answer rooted in scripture and the Spirit.
- Study Together: The best way to learn to discern is to learn with others. I highly recommend diving into a Bible Study Group or joining a Book Club through HolyPlaces. Sharing scripture and asking questions in a safe environment helps solidify that ability to seek.
Making It Practical: The Next Step
This week, let’s try a simple practice: Before you open the scriptures, pause and genuinely ask, "Father, what do you want for me right now?" Don't ask for a specific thing; ask for guidance on your next action. Let the answer come through scripture study, through a thought that pops into your head, or perhaps even through a conversation with a comp.
If you want a deeper dive into the mechanics of seeking revelation, I recommend revisiting the writings of Avraham Gileadi, particularly those focused on the covenants. They are excellent for solidifying the connection between obedience and revelation.
If you want to strengthen this skill in a community setting, join us for our free weekly Disciple Challenge. It’s a simple, actionable prompt designed to help us practice discernment right where we are.
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