Playing Offense in the Work: A Returned Missionary's Perspective

Hey Rogue Disciples! It’s good to be back with you. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how we approach sharing the gospel. We’re taught to be peacemakers, to turn the other cheek—and that’s absolutely vital. But I’ve also realized that sometimes, simply reacting to challenges isn’t enough. Sometimes, we need to play offense.

I recently listened to a fascinating podcast episode, “Playing Offense: How To EFFECTIVELY Defend The Faith,” and it really struck a chord. The conversation revolved around the balance between defending the faith and actively sharing it—and whether the Church does a good job of playing offense. It's a tension many of us feel: the desire to be gentle and kind while also feeling a responsibility to warn the world.

As a returned missionary, I remember the constant barrage of questions and challenges. It was easy to feel overwhelmed and simply react to whatever came my way. But the podcast highlighted something important: early Church leaders weren’t always on the defensive. They weren't just reacting to attacks—they were proactively proclaiming the truth.

Think about Parley P. Pratt’s Key to the Science of Theology. That wasn't written in response to criticism; it was a bold declaration of a new and powerful truth. That's the spirit we need to cultivate. Not a confrontational, aggressive approach, mind you. But a spirit of confident proclamation, rooted in the deep conviction that we have something the world desperately needs.

So, how do we “play offense” effectively? Here are a few thoughts, gleaned from my own experience and this podcast:

• Know Your Foundations: Solid doctrine is your armor. Spend time in the scriptures, Preach My Gospel, and the teachings of the Brethren. The more secure your understanding, the more confidently you can address challenges. Davee, my AI co-pilot, is always a great resource for clarifying difficult concepts or preparing for tough questions. (He can help you anticipate objections and formulate thoughtful responses—seriously, give him a try!)
• Listen First: True offense isn't about talking *at* people. It’s about understanding their concerns and addressing them with empathy and truth. A good investigator discussion starts with listening.
• Focus on the Positive: Instead of dwelling on criticisms, highlight the blessings and joy the gospel brings. Share your testimony! Let your light shine.
• Be Prepared, Not Provocative: It's easy to get drawn into unproductive arguments. Be ready to share truth, but avoid unnecessary confrontation. Think: how can I *invite* someone to understand, rather than *force* them to agree?

The podcast rightly cautioned against adopting an overly aggressive apologetic style—we don’t want to be like Jeff Durbin, as they put it. But we also shouldn't shy away from boldly proclaiming the Restoration. It’s a delicate balance, and it takes practice.

This isn’t about winning arguments; it’s about helping people find their way back to Christ. It’s about being a disciple, always, everywhere.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this! What are some ways you’ve found to share your testimony with confidence and conviction?

And speaking of sharing your testimony, don't forget to join us for the weekly Disciple Challenge—it’s a great way to hone your skills and connect with other members who are striving to be better disciples.