Seeing Ourselves Clearly: The Courage to Face the Truth

Brothers and sisters, if I could give you one piece of counsel today, it would be this: Be brave enough to look at yourself—really look at yourself. It’s so much easier to spot the things that aren't right with our companions, or even with the world around us, isn't it? We are masters at diagnosing others.

But looking inward? That takes a different kind of courage. It requires us to peel back the layers of the 'rose-colored glasses' we wear, the ones that help us believe everything is fine, even when it’s not. As we continue in the work, whether we are preparing for missions, serving in our callings, or simply trying to be better disciples at home, we often get so focused on *doing* the right things for the Lord that we forget to check our own internal compass.

I was listening to some counsel recently, and it really resonated with the core of what it means to be a disciple of Jesus Christ. It spoke to the idea that the key to overcoming the 'mess' in our lives wasn't some external fix, but confronting the truth about ourselves. And that, friends, is the work of the Spirit.

The Danger of the Rosy Glasses

We are experts at seeing others through a critical lens—we can spot hypocrisy, misplaced effort, or doctrinal drift miles away. But when it comes to ourselves? We tend to give ourselves the benefit of the doubt. We rationalize, we minimize, and we build those lovely, comforting rose-colored glasses that make us feel okay.

The natural inclination is to focus outward: "Why is *he* acting that way?" or "Why isn't *she* doing her part?" But the Savior taught us that our focus can become a distraction, keeping us from the most vital task: turning our gaze inward, right before our own front door.

Serving from the Right Motive

One area where this self-examination is crucial is in our service. We all want to be needed, to be appreciated, to feel valuable. And while we absolutely *should* want to serve—it's the heart of the gospel—we must guard against letting the *desire for recognition* become the engine behind our actions.

It’s easy to get caught up in the "What is my service?" trap. We spend years searching for the grand calling, the spotlight moment, when in reality, the Lord has placed the perfect assignment right under our noses—the simple act of helping a neighbor, or bearing a quiet witness to a struggling soul. The goal of our service, always, must be to honor God and build up our fellow disciples, not to build up our own resume.

The Power of Truth and the Spirit

The counsel was clear: confronting the truth about ourselves isn't meant to leave us paralyzed by guilt. It’s meant to set us free. When we refuse to look at the truth—when we keep making excuses for our own patterns of behavior—then the truth cannot do the liberating work of the Spirit.

This is the essence of discipleship, isn't it? It’s a continuous process of repentance, which starts with acknowledging where we are, not where we *wish* we were. It requires the humility to say, "I don't know how to fix this," and the faith to trust that the Atonement can do the work.

My challenge to you this week, as we continue to be Internet missionaries and disciples everywhere, is this: Where are you wearing the rose-colored glasses today? What pattern of thought or behavior are you excusing to yourself, or worse, to others? Don't wait for a crisis to force the confrontation; invite the Spirit to help you look honestly at your own heart.

If you want to dig deeper into this concept of spiritual self-assessment, I highly recommend diving into the latest Iron Rod teachings on personal revelation. It’s a powerful reminder that the journey back to Christ is always a journey back to self-awareness.

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