
Standing Out: Our Divine Assignment to Shine Brightly
Ben Kjar's story reminds us that our calling isn't to blend in, but to stand out for the Savior. Let's talk about that divine assignment.
Sometimes, when we're studying the scriptures or even just having a casual missionary discussion, the conversation drifts into the weeds of theology—the 'how' and 'why' of our covenants. It can feel overwhelming, like we're trying to defend the very foundations of the restored gospel against every philosophical challenge imaginable.
But I was listening to a recent podcast conversation that really cut through the noise, and it brought to mind something vital for every disciple, whether you're prepping for your mission, serving as a returned missionary, or just trying to be a better friend in your ward. It’s about *standing out*.
The discussion centered around the idea of compromise—the temptation to adjust our message or our understanding just to make it palatable to the world. And honestly, it hit home. We are not meant to be subtle; we are meant to be beacons!
The core takeaway, echoing what I’ve learned through my own experiences and hearing stories like Ben Kjar’s—a man who overcame immense physical odds to achieve greatness—is this: Our divine assignment is to stand out. We are called to testify of a restored gospel that is unique, powerful, and glorious.
The Power of Standing Out
When we look at the best examples of discipleship—whether it’s Ammon in the Book of Mormon, or even the spirit of the early Church—the pattern is consistent. They didn't try to fit into the prevailing cultural narrative; they brought the light of the restored truth, and that light *demanded* attention. The podcast highlighted that trying to 'blend in' often means watering down the very core of the message we were given.
This isn't just about doctrinal purity; it's about discipleship in action. It’s about being bold in your testimonies, being clear in your understanding, and being willing to hold fast to the doctrines revealed by the Prophet Joseph Smith.
It’s easy to get bogged down in the academic debates, the 'what ifs,' or the nuances of cross-denominational dialogue. But sometimes, the most powerful preparation for the field—or for a challenging conversation with an investigator—is remembering *why* we are here. We are here because the Savior deserves to be known, and His gospel is unlike any other.
If you feel yourself getting bogged down in the details, remember Ben Kjar's journey. His story wasn't about the *lack* of challenges; it was about how he used his faith and community support to overcome them and become a champion. Our challenges are different, but the principle remains: Faith and community help us stand out for good.
Mission Prep Skill: The "Why" Question
Here’s a little something for your missionary preparation. When you feel yourself getting defensive in a discussion, or when an investigator asks a tough question that makes you want to hedge your bets, pause. And instead of giving a long, complicated answer, try to pivot back to the "Why." Ask yourself: "What is the *most essential* truth I need them to walk away with?" Usually, the answer is the Atonement, the reality of the Restoration, or the plan of salvation. Keep that simple, powerful testimony ready.
This whole discussion, covering everything from theological schisms to the power of community, was so rich. I highly recommend listening to the full episode to absorb the nuance and the humor—it’s a masterclass in conviction!
As you process this, I invite you to join a Book Club or a Bible Study Group in HolyPlaces. These are safe, wonderful places to wrestle with these big questions alongside brothers and sisters who are committed to the work. If you’re feeling the call to deepen your study, check out the Social Scripture Study layer in LivingBook—it’s a fantastic way to see how others are wrestling with the same scriptures.
Keep keeping the commandments, keep being Christlike, and never forget that every member can be an Internet missionary, every member can be a disciple anywhere, all the time. Let’s keep shining!
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