
The Throne of the Heart: Disciplined Living and the Greater Affection
We wrestle with habits—the snooze button, the endless scroll, the comfort-seeking indulgences—but the true battle isn't external. It's a fight for the affections of our own hearts, a fight we can only win by yielding to a greater love.
How often do we find ourselves trapped in cycles of self-deception, promising change only to fall back into familiar patterns? The alarm blares, the scriptures remain unopened, the gym session is skipped, and the evening descends into a haze of screens and fleeting pleasures. We tell ourselves, “Tomorrow will be different.” But tomorrow arrives, and the same battle wages.
It's a poignant observation, echoing the words of Ezekiel: “And they set up idols in their own heart, and put forth stumbling blocks before their faces” (Ezekiel 14:3). The prophet’s diagnosis cuts to the core of the matter: our habits are reflections of what we truly value. If comfort reigns supreme in the chambers of our hearts, our actions will inevitably follow suit.
Thomas Chalmers, in his powerful sermon “The Expulsive Power of a New Affection,” illuminated a crucial principle: you cannot eradicate a lesser love through force. The struggle against ingrained habits isn’t a matter of willpower alone; it’s a testament to a deeper imbalance within the soul. We exhaust ourselves battling symptoms while neglecting the root cause.
The Brethren have consistently taught of the importance of the heart—the wellspring of our actions and motivations. President Kimball counseled, “The heart is the spirit. As we cultivate our spirits, our actions will be in harmony with the divine” (Ensign, Nov. 1978, 4). To fight against the habits that bind us, we must first contend for the affections of our hearts.
Think of the temple—a place dedicated to the purest of loves, a place where we covenant with God and strive to become more like Him. It's not merely a building of stone and mortar; it's a reflection of the devotion we hold within. How can we expect to experience the peace and power of the temple if our hearts are captivated by lesser things?
The Restoration itself, the unfolding of the gospel in these latter days, demands a focused and devoted heart. The Lord has revealed truths and given us priesthood authority, but these gifts are contingent upon our willingness to surrender our desires to His will. As Nephi declared, “And it came to pass that I did cry unto the Lord, and I beheld that his ways were not like unto our ways, for our ways were like unto the ways of death, and his ways were as it were to live” (2 Nephi 26:21).
The shift, then, is not one of managing behavior but of surrendering the throne of our hearts. It's a deliberate choice to place God above all else, to cultivate a love for Him that eclipses our temporal desires. This is not a passive process; it requires intentional effort—diligent scripture study, sincere prayer, and a conscious rejection of the idols we have set up in our hearts.
Let us examine our own affections. What holds the greatest sway over our thoughts, our actions, our desires? Are we pursuing a greater love, a love that will not fade or disappoint?
Consider this a prompt for continued reflection. What 'idol' currently holds a position of prominence in your heart? How might a deeper connection with the Lord begin to displace it?
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