The Weight of Dishonor: Mother Teresa, Communion, and the Iron Rod

We’ve all wrestled with the unsettling feeling that something is… off. A dissonance between what we’re told and what the Spirit whispers. A tension between tradition and truth. Sometimes, the most piercing clarity comes from unexpected sources.

Fr. John Perricone’s recent conversation with a friend—and the subsequent sharing of his experiences with Mother Teresa—is one such moment.

The account of his breakfasts with Mother Teresa, the simple act of sharing a meal with a woman who had witnessed the darkest corners of the world, is profoundly moving. But it’s her response to his question about the worst evil she encountered that resonates with an unsettling force. We might anticipate a response centered on abortion or euthanasia, evils undeniably grievous. Instead, she declared, with unwavering conviction, “Communion in the hand.”

The simplicity of the statement is deceptive. It's not merely a matter of preference, but a recognition of profound respect and reverence for the Savior. As she put it, “What dishonor to our blessed savior.” This isn't a critique of those who participate, but a lament for a discipline that diminishes the sacredness of the ordinance. It’s a stark illustration of how, even within the body of Christ, subtle shifts can lead to significant departures from fundamental principles.

The subsequent backlash against Mother Teresa, the rebuke from a high-ranking cleric who defended the practice, underscores a troubling pattern. When we prioritize acceptance over truth, when we silence those who speak with prophetic clarity, we risk inviting the very darkness Mother Teresa dedicated her life to combat. D&C 1:14 warns us of those who “proclaim their own way.” Are we, as Latter-day Saints, so committed to the Restoration that we are willing to stand apart, even when—especially when—it invites criticism?

Fr. Perricone's story also highlights the power of humble service and unexpected blessings. The fact that Mother Teresa, a woman of such renown, intervened to ensure his tuition was paid speaks volumes about her character and her willingness to lift others. It reminds us that even seemingly small acts of kindness can have profound and lasting effects, mirroring the Savior’s own ministry.

This encounter is a potent lesson in discernment. It challenges us to examine not just our outward actions, but the underlying principles that guide them. It calls us to seek the Spirit’s confirmation in all things, even when it means challenging prevailing norms. The iron rod, as Moroni taught, is the “guide” that leads us to the fountain of living water. But it only works if we are willing to hold fast to it, even when the path is difficult and the voices of opposition are loud. As Isaiah prophesied, “And in that day men will look to the Lord of hosts for strength and power” (Isaiah 29:20).

Let us meditate on Mother Teresa's words, seeking understanding through prayer and diligent study of the scriptures. Let us strive to cultivate a spirit of reverence and humility in all our dealings, and to stand firm against the forces that seek to diminish the sacredness of God’s ordinances.

What ordinances in your own life do you feel require a deeper commitment to reverence and faithfulness?

Consider submitting a personal reflection on a time when you felt prompted to stand for truth, even in the face of opposition. We welcome your insights and experiences.