When the Calling Takes You Off the Bench: Finding Purpose in the Unexpected

Have you ever felt like you were standing on the sidelines, waiting for the perfect opportunity, or perhaps you felt that the calling placed upon you didn't match your resume? We've all been there—feeling like we should be doing one thing, but the Spirit is gently guiding us toward something entirely different.

The concept of 'getting off the bench' is one of the most beautiful metaphors for discipleship. It speaks to the truth that the Lord's assignments rarely adhere to our five-year plans or our professional qualifications. Whether you are a returned missionary adjusting to life at home, a lifelong disciple trying to find a niche, or a new member learning what the work truly entails, the greatest service often happens when we are called to the unexpected.

In a recent talk, we heard a powerful story about a man who spent decades as a military officer and federal prosecutor—a life defined by structure, rules, and high achievement. Yet, when his life changed, he found his true calling in the deeply unstructured, emotionally demanding, and profoundly rewarding work of foster care and adoption. His journey illustrates that the capacity to serve the Lord is not limited by our titles, our education, or our career trajectory.

“What’s in your hand? You know whether it's a position, it's opportunity.”

This shouldn't feel like a contradiction, but rather a powerful confirmation of gospel principles. It reminds us that our primary calling—the one that matters most to the Father—is to be disciples of Jesus Christ, and that calling can be fulfilled anywhere, at any time. It is the heart and the willingness to serve that defines us, not our zip code or our job title.

✨ Getting Off the Bench in Your Own Life

For us as Latter-day Saints, the message is clear: the Savior needs our hearts, our time, and our willingness to serve—and He will teach us how to use those gifts, even if they look nothing like what we expected. We are called to be Internet missionaries, and that doesn't mean we have to be physically in a mission field; it means carrying the gospel with the Spirit wherever we are.

💡 Mission Prep Skill Focus: The Power of the Question

If you are preparing for mission discussions, remember that the most profound answers often come from asking better questions. Instead of waiting for the investigator to ask the tough question, practice framing thoughtful questions yourself about the realities of the gospel. This shows intellectual curiosity and helps you anticipate areas of doubt. It’s a skill that helps you think like a disciple, ready to receive and teach the Spirit.

📚 Deepening Your Disciple Status

Remember that learning and growth are continuous. If you want to dive deeper into the concept of identity—what it means to be a child of God regardless of circumstances—I recommend looking into the writings of Iron Rod authors. Check out a book on the LivingBook app that touches on divine identity. It’s a wonderful way to weave scripture study into your daily routine.

🗓️ Join the Movement

If you haven't already, I encourage you to join a local Book Club or a Bible Study Group through HolyPlaces. These are incredible, low-pressure ways to connect with others who are serious about the work, and they are perfect for those who are currently 'off the bench' themselves. Let's lift each other up, companions!