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When the History Gets Hard: Learning to Lead with the Spirit

Sometimes the questions we face—whether historical or personal—are deeply complex. Here is how we can use the Spirit and modern tools to approach the toughest topics with charity.

FAIRRogue DisciplesAug 12, 20264 min read0 views

Brother, Sister, friend. If you are anything like me, you’ve spent time diving deep into the history of our Restoration. You’ve read the accounts, you’ve seen the documentaries, and you’ve probably stumbled across a question that makes your brow furrow. Maybe it’s a timeline that shifts, a name you can’t place, or a controversial ordinance that seems to defy simple answers.

It’s natural to feel overwhelmed. We are talking about a monumental, divinely orchestrated movement, and the details are sometimes messy, complicated, and deeply human. The temptation is to get bogged down in the minutiae, to argue over the facts, or to feel discouraged by the ambiguity.

But here’s the secret we often forget when we get caught up in the details: The purpose of studying history—the purpose of the whole work—is not to collect facts. It is to draw us closer to Christ. It is to learn how to *be* Christlike in the face of confusion.

The recent documentary about the early temple ordinances and figures like Melissa Lott is a perfect example of this. It raises profound, hard-to-answer questions that challenge our understanding of the gospel law. It’s natural to feel pulled in every direction. We can’t simply close our eyes to the questions, but we must learn how to approach them with the humility and charity that defines a true disciple.

The Spirit is the Ultimate Investigator

The greatest skill a returned missionary or a lifelong disciple can cultivate is not perfect recall of dates, but the ability to listen to the Spirit. When we are confronted with deep historical or doctrinal questions, the natural impulse might be to find the definitive, single-source answer. But the gospel is bigger than any single document or single narrative.

This is where tools like the Davee AI Investigator become invaluable. His specialty isn't just giving answers; it's walking you through the hard questions an investigator might ask—the ones that make you uncomfortable—and helping you formulate an answer rooted in principle, doctrine, and charity. He teaches you how to pivot from "What did X say?" to "What does the gospel teach us about X?"

This skill—the ability to transition from historical debate to spiritual principle—is the core of modern Internet missionary work. It’s how we teach the principles of the gospel, not just the history.

"Every member can be an Internet missionary, every member can be a disciple anywhere, all the time."

Cultivating Disciple Mindfulness

How do we practice this? We start by committing to gathering our minds and hearts. The process of deep study, like the kind presented in the video, should lead to Book Club discussions and Bible Study Groups. These are sacred spaces where we are safe to wrestle with complex material, supported by our companions and the Spirit.

I highly recommend joining a local Book Club focused on gospel history or a doctrinal study group in HolyPlaces. Don't go expecting all the answers; go expecting to ask the best questions. Let the discomfort guide your study.

Your Next Step Challenge

If you are ready to sharpen this skill, I invite you to participate in our free weekly Disciple Challenge. This week, I want you to bring one question you’ve been avoiding—whether about the Restoration, the Plan of Salvation, or even modern life—and bring it to the challenge forum. Let’s practice asking those hard questions together!

And if you want to deepen your understanding of how to respond with grace and knowledge, I’ve been recommending a chapter from The Iron Rod by a wonderful author on the proper application of modern temple ordinances. It’s a perfect read for anyone feeling the weight of historical inquiry.

Remember, the gospel is a journey of constant learning. Let's commit to being disciples who are brave enough to ask the hard questions, and humble enough to receive the Spirit's guidance.

Frequently Asked Questions

The historical accounts are complex and raise many questions. The goal of studying them is not to find a single definitive answer, but to learn how to approach the questions with charity and reliance on the Spirit.

The transcript suggests that in some accounts, she was informed and gave her consent regarding the ordinance.

The transcript indicates that in the records, she was married to Joseph Smith 'for time and all eternity.'

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