When the Research Hits a Brick Wall: Finding the Spirit's Next Clue
Feeling stuck in the work of the Gathering of Israel or in your missionary journey? This post shares techniques for persistence and remembering that every dead end is just a chance to deepen your faith.
There are times when the Spirit feels distant. You’ve opened your scriptures, you’ve spent hours studying a difficult doctrine, or maybe you’ve been working on a family line for months, and all you find is a wall of dust and frustration. You hit a brick wall. It feels like the work has stalled, and the weight of the mission—whether it’s the mission field or the family tree—can feel immense.
If you've ever spent time in the work of the Gathering of Israel, you know this feeling. It’s the moment you are tempted to pack up your genealogical tools and declare, "I quit. It's too complicated."
But that feeling of being "stuck" is often the very place where the Lord asks us to adjust our perspective, not our effort. It requires us to learn the skill of persistence, and more importantly, the skill of *due diligence*.
The Spirit is the Great Genealogist
Whether you are looking at connecting a 19th-century Norwegian ancestor or preparing to discuss the plan of salvation with a friend, the underlying principle is the same: We must be diligent, we must check our sources, and we must not assume that because a path *looks* easy, it *is* right.
In a recent session, I watched Colette share some fantastic, practical tips for navigating those difficult dead ends in family history. She walked us through how to use specific tools—like the Campaign feature in FamilySearch—to find available ordinances, and how to use those resources to build confidence in the lineage.
From the Tree to the Field: Applying the Skill
The skills we learn in temple ordinances and family history are not siloed; they are integral to becoming a disciple anywhere, all the time. When we are doing the work, we are always doing the work of the Gospel. The process of genealogy teaches us profound lessons about missionary discipleship:
- Do Not Assume: Just because a record is available, or a doctrine seems simple, doesn't mean it's the final answer. We must always use our due diligence—asking "Why?" and "Where is the source?"—before we present information to an investigator or a family member.
- Start with Confidence: Colette recommended starting in an area of the world where we feel comfortable. In our own mission prep, this means identifying the doctrines or cultures that feel most natural to us. We build confidence by mastering what we know well, and then we use that foundation to tackle the harder questions.
- The Power of the Source: When we find a record, we don't just take it; we examine it. We look at the *sources*, we look at the *relationship*, and we look for corroboration. This is the same process we use when preparing to teach the Book of Mormon or discuss the covenants. We don't just repeat information; we know where it comes from and why it is true.
Your Next Step in the Work
If you feel stuck in the work—whether that's a stubborn genealogy issue or a challenging doctrinal question—I want to encourage you to treat that feeling of frustration as a signal. It doesn't mean quit; it means pivot. It means digging deeper, checking your sources, and asking the Spirit for a new angle.
If you are interested in practicing this deep dive into sources and doctrine, I highly recommend trying out a Book Club in HolyPlaces. It's a wonderful, low-stakes way to engage in social scripture study, allowing you to practice the art of finding and sharing reliable sources with fellow disciples. It’s the perfect way to sharpen those investigative skills!
For those who are seasoned missionaries, remember the power of the companions—and the district leader. Don't try to solve the biggest, most overwhelming questions alone. Talk to your leadership. They have walked through the same "brick walls" and have the wisdom to help you pivot.
If you need a refresher on how to navigate difficult questions—say, when an investigator asks something that makes you pause—check out my co-pilot, Davee. He specializes in the AI Investigator role, walking you through those tough questions so you feel prepared and confident, no matter where you are.
Lastly, if you are looking for recommended reading to help ground your understanding of the Spirit's guidance, check out the Iron Rod collection. I especially recommend *Patterns of Revelation* for a deeper dive into how we know when we are being guided by the Spirit.
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