The Unseen Hands: Women and the Family Proclamation

The echoes of General Conference resonate long after the last hymn fades. We gather, not as passive recipients of counsel, but as fellow laborers in the Lord’s vineyard, striving to understand and implement the truths revealed through His prophets. And sometimes, the most profound truths are found not in what is overtly stated, but in the unseen efforts that underpin the pronouncements themselves. Consider, for a moment, “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.” We’ve studied it, memorized it, lived by it – but how many of us have truly considered the profound influence of women in its genesis?

Dr. Barbara Morgan Gardner, in her recent BYU lecture (and as evidenced by Elder Rasband’s remarks in General Conference), sheds light on this vital, often obscured, narrative. Her work, particularly her book The Priesthood Power of Women, offers a deep dive into the collaborative process, a testament to the power of sisterly counsel and spiritual insight. As she recounts, her mother’s simple question – “Do you know Barbara Morgan Gardner?” – became a source of unexpected connection and a reminder of the power of influence, both personal and prophetic.

The transcript of her lecture speaks of a young woman, listening intently to President Hinckley’s address, a young woman who recognized the profound significance of the words being spoken, even if they seemed commonplace at the time. It was a moment of recognition, of testimony, and of responsibility – a feeling familiar to any who have felt the Spirit bearing witness of truth.

The Restoration in Action

What’s striking is not just the document itself, but the process by which it came to be. Dr. Gardner’s research reveals a tapestry of women’s voices, their perspectives interwoven with the priesthood authority directed by the Brethren. This isn’t a story of men speaking for women, but of a collective effort, a synergy born of revelation and careful, considered counsel. The family, as ordained by God, is a microcosm of the celestial kingdom – a place where diverse gifts and talents are united in purpose. To understand the Family Proclamation is to glimpse this principle in action.

Consider the example Dr. Gardner shares of her own parents, eloping to the temple, finding their covenant path outside the immediate support of family. Their commitment, born of faith and determination, mirrors the unwavering dedication required to build and sustain a righteous family – a dedication that extends beyond individual efforts and embraces the collective strength of the community.

A Living Testimony

The Family Proclamation isn't merely a historical document; it’s a living testament, a guiding light for Latter-day Saints navigating the complexities of modern life. It’s a call to action, a challenge to strive for greater faithfulness and righteousness within our families and communities. And it’s a reminder that the Lord’s work is advanced not by solitary heroes, but by the combined efforts of those who seek His will.

As we study the scriptures, as we listen to the prophets, let us also seek to understand the unseen hands that shape the revelations we receive. Let us acknowledge and appreciate the contributions of all who labor in the Lord’s harvest, particularly those whose voices may be less readily heard.

May we all strive to emulate the faith and dedication of those who came before us, and to contribute our own unique gifts to the building of Zion.

Further Study: D&C 130:18-21 – ponder the nature of revelation and the roles of men and women in receiving it. What does this passage suggest about the importance of collaboration and diverse perspectives?

Submission Invitation: Share your reflections on the Family Proclamation and the role of women in the Church. How has this document shaped your family and your understanding of God’s plan?

Spirit-Led Prompt: Consider a woman in your life who has profoundly influenced your understanding of the family and the gospel. Take a moment to express your gratitude for her example.